Studies have concluded that there are many health benefits of achieving orgasms including the reduction of stress by the release of endorphins, increased energy, burning off calories, improved brain function from the release of DHEA (a natural steriod hormone), a healthier immune system and the reduction of toxins from skin through sweating, to name a few.

So how can we enhance them, have more of them and identify what might be getting in the way?  (meds, alcohol, drugs and diet)?

How to Have Them, Give Them, and Keep Them Coming

book review … Big O ~ How to Have Them, Give Them, and Keep Them Coming

An easy read, this book is about options… it has the latest information on the types and techniques of orgasms for women and men.  Did you know that women can orgasm in 10 different ways and a man in 7 different ways? Paget provides techniques and illustrations, amusing facts such as “Back in the Middle Ages, straight pubic hair was a sign of too much masturbation, which presumably accounts for the wide popularity of miniature pubic hair curlers at the time,” and “In 1930 there was a nude indoor bicycle race in Paris in which each woman’s goal was to be the first to orgasm from rubbing on the seat.”

“Sex is a multidimensional experience: it is as much about the body as it is about the mind. Have you ever felt that your body wants to let go but your mind gets in the way?”

The information gathered is real, accurate, and meant to broaden your scope on the subject.  We know you’ll enjoy this one!

About the author:  AASECT certified sex educator Lou Paget is the author of four previous sex guides: How to Be a Great Lover, How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure, The Big O, and 365 Days of Sensational Sex. Her sold-out Sexuality Seminars are taught throughout the US, Canada, and Europe, and her advice appears frequently in the media.

In 500 words or less… tell us all about him or her.  Whether it’s your spouse, your lover or the one you pine for (and they don’t even know it)… What makes them so special?  We want to hear from you… and when we do, we’ll enter your submission into our “I Love That About You” Draw for a chance to win the following:

In 500 words or less… tell us all about him or her.  Whether it’s your spouse, your lover or the one you pine for (and they don’t even know it)… What makes them so special?  We want to hear from you… and when we do, we’ll enter your submission into our “I Love That About You” Draw for a chance to win the following:

Submissions are judged by the wow factor… that is, originality, the unexpected, perhaps a little humour.. and,  if it makes us go “Awww, that’s so great!” or “I wish that someone felt that way about me!” then  you are on the right track. 

It may be what you like about them, the way you feel when you look at them or maybe even how you feel having them in your life…  oh, and yes guys… this is for you too!  Loosen up and tell us how you really feel.

For more information on this prize, the runner up prize, submission & other details  click here

Contest  ends Feb 28^th, 2010 at midnight

IF YOU LIKE THIS IDEA FOR A ROMANTIC PACKAGE for Valentine’s Day… you can purchase this as well (click here)

SEDUCTION TIME MASSAGE CANDLES

Our candles are made from 100% Soya wax, derived from natural (genetically unmodified) Soya beans. This innovative alternative to paraffin and beeswax contains 0% lead, emits 0% petrol-carbon soot (contains 0% petroleum-derived by-products), it melts at a lower temperature than other waxes and it is water-soluble and biodegradable.

We are proud to offer candles with natural scents. We use only 100% pure, plant-based essential oils that are aromatherapy grade, a healthy alternative to synthetic perfumes. Our container candles are made in high quality, heat-safe metal and glass holders that can be easily cleaned for reuse. We insist on natural cotton braided wick, and non-toxic, animal-friendly, subtle wax colors.

Our natural approach to candle making affords us every opportunity to provide a safe and healthy working environment for our production staff. Our products give the comfort of knowing that you made the best decision for yourself, your family and our environment.

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CHOCOLATE BODY PAINT SINGLE by Kama Sutra

For those who have been tempted by their creative side, indulge your artistic muse with this decadently rich body paint. What better way to use your lover’s body than as a canvas? Line and form will take on new meanings after a great night together that includes chocolate body paint.

Product Contains 2oz of our most popular milk chocolate flavour accompanied with a supple brush for sensual body design.

 Link: http://www.lovenest.ca/store/details.cfm?ProductID=1216

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Love Nest Home Parties has been helping couples make their honeymoons and general love life more fulfilling for over 30 years.  From massage products, educational books, lover’s toys, fun lingerie to sexy novelties for your stagette or bachelorette party, there’s something for everyone!

Blushing Bride by day.. Sexy Kitten by night.  He’ll fall in love with you even more!!!

PLUS… as the hostess of the party, you’ll receive 10% from all purchases as a credit towards your own purchases… it’s a great way to get  those “little somethings” you’ve been waiting for.  And, we have great ongoing contests and promotions throughout the year, so enter online and sign up for our newsletter to receive special offers.

What makes our parties different?  We can tailor the products we bring for your group of friends AND you take home your purchases that evening…no ordering and waiting for them to come! It’s an entertaining and fun night with your friends where you will learn about the latest in sensual products and romantic accessories.

Let’s face it… women love to get together, they love to shop and they love to talk about the secrets of their love life… what better combination!

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With over 150 exhibitors and over 170 booths, Brides and Grooms-to-be, along with their family and friends, can find inspiration, fresh ideas and reputable industry professionals to help them plan the wedding of their dreams.

Featured exhibitors include everything from invitation vendors, gown shops, cake-makers, favors, lingerie, shoes, chocolate fountains, jewelry designers, photographers, decorators, musicians, wedding planners, honeymoon destinations and representatives from some of Vancouvers finest venues.

With over 1000 unique prizes and gifts valued at over $250,000 including the $100,000 Dream Wedding, this show promises to be a highlight in the planning process for any newly-engaged couple.

Warm things up this winter with a fun game…

Pick a neighbourhood or area of your city and write on different pieces of paper specific intersections or points of interest - ie, entrance to the park, in front of the library, your favorite waterfront bench. Put the different papers in a bag and have you and your partner each pick out a paper.

Whatever the location is on the paper, go there with your partner and share a luscious, romantic and passionate kiss. It is great to walk hand in hand with the anticipation of a warm moment only minutes away, on those chilly winter days.

Thoughts on losing your Libido when things get too habitual in your relationship…

Years ago while waitressing my way through University tuition payments, I learned how to hone my skills as a people watcher - the observer of restaurant patrons. Particular regular clientele would often fascinate me. The visual above reminds me so much of two such “regulars”.

An older couple would frequent the restaurant where I worked every Monday night. They would sit at their regular table, order the same items from the menu, and then proceed to open up rival newspapers and read to themselves. Just the way they held up their papers (high and completely blocking their spouse), told me that they were in a too-comfortable-place in their relationship. How boring would it be to have that as your Monday night excitement?

Years later, I realize that there is a certain ritual and schedule that starts to consume your life after being together for many years. When this happens, it’s time to do the little things that are worth so much.

Little things….love notes, a sexy photo tucked into a briefcase or purse, or a sexy new pair of panties can go a long way. Start brainstorming and get back to that special place where you both started from.