Thoughts on losing your Libido when things get too habitual in your relationship…
Years ago while waitressing my way through University tuition payments, I learned how to hone my skills as a people watcher - the observer of restaurant patrons. Particular regular clientele would often fascinate me. The visual above reminds me so much of two such “regulars”.
An older couple would frequent the restaurant where I worked every Monday night. They would sit at their regular table, order the same items from the menu, and then proceed to open up rival newspapers and read to themselves. Just the way they held up their papers (high and completely blocking their spouse), told me that they were in a too-comfortable-place in their relationship. How boring would it be to have that as your Monday night excitement?
Years later, I realize that there is a certain ritual and schedule that starts to consume your life after being together for many years. When this happens, it’s time to do the little things that are worth so much.
Little things….love notes, a sexy photo tucked into a briefcase or purse, or a sexy new pair of panties can go a long way. Start brainstorming and get back to that special place where you both started from.
